Shame on you for using your dad for so many years. He loves you and in his mind is trying to help you. You know you are manipulating him and seem very arrogant about using him so easily. Go tell your dad your sorry, quit using him financially and emotionally an get your lazy but out of bed (or off the stupid computer) and begin to take care of yourself. I don't know how old you are but if your over 18, I would throw your lazy butt out!! Make it right with your dad before it's too late!!