Me and my boyfriend are usually a team.

We went to a comedy show tonight where one of the jokes was about domestic violence. Nobody really laughed. But after the show, my boyfriend defended the comic saying it was funny.

Well, it wasn't funny to me!!!!!!

I got very steamed and left the restaurant, boycotting the rest of the show. My boyfriend wanted to stay.

The problem is I can't even look at him right now. I can't bear to.

I can't feel comfortable and safe with him now.

I know he is not violent but feeling that he is not on my side is upsetting in a way I will never be able to explain.