It sounds like your doctor is giving you way too many options. It is not a doctor's job to list to you which mediations may work and ask you what you think. It is the doctor's job to perscribe the right medication that he/she thinks will best help you and perscribe something else fit eh first one doesn't help.
I know what you mean by being anxious. I used to be that way and used alcohol to try and soothe it (which works for about an hour). However, I think once you find the right medication or the right combination of medications, that anxious feeling will be less apparent. Hopefully, you'll then not crave a drink anymore (like me).
Hang in there!
Lia
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