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Old Jul 14, 2012, 06:26 AM
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Originally Posted by skycastle View Post
One time, I spent 15-20 minutes in a session in silence. My T told me that if I ever did that again then she would pull out a book and start reading. She did NOT like the silence. The next session she was the most animated I've ever seen her, I think I got under her skin a lot.

I brought it up a year and a half later. She just said she didn't have the attention span to sit in silence for that long, that she hadn't meant to be punitive. I actually think she's kidding herself...
You didn't overstep any boundaries - your T has some issues there. If you want/need to sit in silence it's your decision and time to do it. If she doesn't like it, tough. That's what being a t is about. Crikey - some ts!
Thanks for this!
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