She actually scares me more than anything. She rips into me a lot, once she asked me what advice I would give to a girl who was being attacked by a man and I said I would tell the girl to knee him in the balls and run as fast as she could and T said well thats not very constructive is it?? telling a young girl to hurt the man and run, really is this what I have been teaching you... I was left sitting there feeling bad about myself again...sometimes it feels as though I am a naughty school girl