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Originally Posted by kiki86
i think you're actually hoping something is going to happen with this man. do you want to tell him because you want to deal with the transference or because you really hope he'll say "oh barbarella i fancy you too, let's go out!" i'm sorry to say it won't happen. your psychiatrist will reject your advances if you make them. i think you're reading into things a lot. how do you know he wasn't dressed up and wearing cologne because he had a lunch date?
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No it's not that... I'm completely aware that we can't have a relationship. He's married and with kids and I do want to deal with my transference.
What worries me is that he feels the same way and then something happens. I don't feel like I could say no if he made a pass...
Anyway, I just brought it up because I want to be more relaxed the next time I see him so that we can start talking about this. I do think this is important to my therapy.