Crossing boundaries with my therapists has been the story of my life. I can't count how many T's I've had over the 15+ years I've been in therapy. Well, I can count but I'm just trying to make a point Almost all of my T's have terminated therapy with me because of my inability to respect boundaries.

I am diagnosed Borderline and Dissociative Identity.

My boundary crossings have been:

- Refusal to leave the T's office when the session is over
- Attempting to hug the T from behind without her knowing
- Calling in between sessions just to hear the T's voice (voicemail)
- Calling T's cell phone at midnight, then hanging up
- Researching the T online and getting access to certain personal information
- Sending letters to T or attaching letters or messages to T's building door
- Manipulating with T's office staff to get extra sessions

There are probably more...

So yeah, that's my list. I've never actually written out those things before...maybe it will help me...