It's very tough having to start over again and again. Makes each time a little harder. I think parents are pretty much all in denial about what they do to their kids. They feel defensive because it's the life they gave you and they all want to believe they are good parents not matter how abysmally they failed you. Got to make it inspite of them. Actually I think it's easier after you move out and don't have to listen to them trying to shove their view of things down your throat. Even if you do the best you know for your kids sometimes it's not very good. Some parents the kids don't come into their decision making at all. They do what they think works best for them even if it is very selfish and destructive for their family. Can't do anything about it except rise above it.