I know you are frustrated and I sense your fear.....

Maybe write a note on the refrig that he needs to complete the applications .. Put a note on the bathroom mirror... too.....

Poor concentration also can be part of depression.. I know at times I have serious concentration problems.... When I can, "somehow I can "inside" grab hold and can focus better... at times.... but when stressed or under pressure I am a basket case... I haven't always been this way, but that is how it has been for several years....

Don't forget... You don't have to do "everything" for him... You can do only so much... and your stressed big time now... so you need to lay back from his problems and focus on you.... which is sometimes easier said than done......