((((Clouds)))) i agree with OE. If you arent receiving constructive, positive feedback while sharing, especially if it keeps happening, then cut him off and move on. It doesn't sound as if you feel good by his replies and only worse.
Tell him you truly appreciate his input. You "understand" (meaning you see right through him and it is hopeless) wish him all the best and move on. If he has your email address or screen name account, change them.
You are looking to connect with loving funny intelligent considerate like-minded people...he doesnt sound like one at all.
It sounds like a bad "fit".
Most important, listen to and trust your instincts.
Hugs,
Rose
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