While I personally am very happy I waited and gave my virginity to my boyfriend, I also realize that not everyone feels the same way about waiting. If you and this girl have a mutual understanding of the situation and she is aware and you are aware that this is strictly a sexual relationship I see no moral problem with it. Every person had different opinions and feelings when it comes to sex. However just keep in mind that giving your virginity to someone is a very emotional thing, I know some men that for them they say it was more emotional than they expected it to be. Waiting for a special someone is nice, but that also doesn't mean that special someone is someone you have to be in love with. While I gave my virginity to my boyfriend, we had only been talking for a month and actually dating for two weeks, I cared for him but didn't love him at the time. I decided he was the person because he made me feel so safe, comfortable, beautiful and cared for. It just happened to work out that down the road in the relationship we fell in love. Just remember to ask yourself if this is what you really want and remember to practice safe sex,
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