Thanks everyone for the support. It just really doesn't feel safe to see him, I don't feel that he was looking out for me. It's so tricking with dual roles anyway, he really should have thought it through better. And his email back to me was more of a non-apology apology ("I regret that you're upset), kind of BS. I've been thinking it's time to wind down anyway. He plays a little too strong a role in his own life, if you know what I mean!