I was really sex needy before my latest round of drugs which includes zoloft, the one I consider the culprit of the loss of desire. I had to resort to the toys a lot though, because my husband was having some troubles with his desire-it was in his mind, but he couldn't keep it up on the other end (thank God he doesn't read my posts!)
Now we have a reversal of roles-my drive is gone and he went and got the little blue pill. With some initiation, I can get some of the good feelings back, but I'm hit or miss on an orgasm.
Btw, I haven't discussed this with either of my medical drs.-the pdoc nor my gp. The pdoc looks about thirty years younger than me and she would probably wonder how I would have the energy anyway And my gp is the one who prescribed viagra for my husband, so she might pity him! I can talk to my t about it, but I don't need to talk about it, I need action!
Btw, I am 51 and haven't quite completed menopause yet.