Thank you all for your replies, I can see exactly how that is my ex in every way shape and form.

Terrible terrible man, he was soooo incredibly selfish, self absorbed, no one in this world existed but him he thought. He even said he believed the old philosopher who said when you leave a room or a person and they're not around, that they just vanish, they dont exist unless they were around him. That's what he told me he believed. And literally ended it saying that basically he believed the world revolved around him. He was very cruel and only cared about becoming "rich" and about him. Everything was and still is about him. Eck.
Wish he wasn't my daughters father... Eck