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I think with him it was kind of a mixture. I mean I understand he also had a difficult childhood. His father kidnapped his brother and sister but left him with his mom. His father and brother took their own lives and his mother became a severe drunk, very verbally abusive but so was he. She spoiled him but at the same time she did it to make up for the way she treated him. She admitted to spoiling him, but he likely did build a wall because of what he went through.
But I went through many many things as well and would never could never treat someone that way and if I saw myself doing so I would seek help immediately. I hope it's nothing that can be inherited, I'd be so dissappointed if my child ends up that way.
I don't like to think that anyone is full on bad per se but he really was horrible to me and my child. Maybe I will forward him some of the information I found and see if it rings true to him, then maybe it will make him realize that he is a pretty selfish and cruel human... Doubtful though, he's "perfect"
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