Of course there's a hope, but not rational one. And, honestly, if she wasn't my therapist, I don't think I'd be attracted to her. I can't really say that if we met in a different way, and I wasn't married that I would love to date her, but I do think she'd be a good friend. I think the sexual feelings arise from the therapy context. She's not really my type.

Did you talk about it with a bunch of people who generally hold you accountable or did you keep it a secret? I'm gonna do my best to keep talking about it, so warning signs can be recognized.