My t admitted his feelings for me (you are in my heart and in my head; if I were not married I would probably go for it and 100;s of other provocative remarks)....I have been in love with him for 7 years, and have somehow found a way to live with the knowledge that he isn't available, etc.....It would have been better for me, if I hadn't known about his feelingd for me. There is nothing I can do about it.