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Originally Posted by hankster
talking isn't doing. Your T gave you honest feedback on something you were sensing, after you asked.
Who ELSE would you talk to this about? Ignoring it doesn't make it go away. And talking about it doesn't MAKE something happen, altho Tom Cruise might have a different opinion about that. We might be taking all the fun out of things, but it looks to me like you're just trying to get that 20-20 hindsight AHEAD of any actions.
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Well, I can't think of anything Tom Cruise has been wrong about.
Seriously, you may well be right that I'm trying to take the fun out of it by talking about it. I'm not in therapy to have fun, so I'm fairly leery of the pleasure I'm taking in her attraction. If I can make what's happening more public and less just between the two of us, then it is less dangerous, exciting, and pleasurable.