Agreed- you haven't wasted anybody's time! We're all just on this path with these pdocs and therapists and meds and dx's that change, and we're here to help each other. This is such a bummer that you didn't get to say what you wanted at your appt I agree that next appt should probably be just you and pdoc, without your wife. You can always fill her in on everything discussed after the appt, if you wanted. Hang in there!!