Im trying to feel better but its hard when you feel like a failure and that you let down your child.

He called me yesterday evening!

Like, wow. I didn't expect that.

I told him we needed to fill out paperwork and a parenting plan and stuff and he was just all dumbfounded about it.

He didnt think we had to go through all of this just to get a divorce. (lol)

He also told me he knows(no he doesnt) how hard it is on me, and that this wasnt an easy choice for him either(whatever). We(meaning him) "grew apart" and he was "too young"...that divorce wasnt planned for him and that he was just unhappy.(no specific reason why) That he isnt divorcing just to date other people, and blah blah blah. If love was a choice then I could just choose to stop loving him. He's just adding girls on facebook just to add people and they don't really talk to him. He just wants me to move on with my life. Blah blah blah. That he is just unhappy and he cant pinpoint a specific reason why. (I then brought up the fact that he slept with me THAT same morning...he told me not to bring it up) That divorce wasn't planned, even the day he dumped me...he just thought about it and it happened.

He even asked if I had my baby shower.


Should I believe this bull****? Or is he just trying to make himself feel better?