I would have much rather her have knocked on my door at 7 when the noise from her and her friends woke me up than post that. She also has a picture of some spots on the counter of food that I could not find there when I went to do dishes. The microwave was covered with her popcorn grease/oil. Just a little less then a month and I'll be moving. I really doubt they would let me move over this.

I would like to handle it in as a mature of a way as possible. I don't know if that would be ignoring it or writing her a note and sticking it on her door or fridge. I'm thinking a simple note something like, "I'm sorry the kitchen wasn't clean. If you have a problem with me or something I do, please tell me or write it on a post-it note and stick it on the fridge." After an incident with a friend a couple of months ago, he suggested writing our problems with each other on sticky notes because there is only so much you can put on one.

Now one of my "friends" has commented on it. I'm freaking out. Appartment-mate isn't in the appartment. I don't know what to do. Now everyone at school will think I'm a slob.