Hi
Yeah I have been thinking about that hard about getting her out of my home. But the hold she has over me she can make me feel incredibly responsible for her and I then feel guilty, I haven't been this bad until she moved in with me, I was quite ok until she did. But she is such a borderline personality. She is so frightened of being rejected and abanded that I know thats why she does what she does. Ugh I think a part of my has strong borderline traits at times too.
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