Yalom has written many excellent books, but what he confessed about his feelings for that overweight woman is disgusting!!!!! I don't respect him anymore!! I kind of wish he'd suddenly have a weight problem and he would see how it feels from the other side. I forgot the name of the movie--it's an old one, in which a doctor treats his patients like objects until HE becomes a patient. That sure opened his eyes. Hankster, remember that movie?

I think it's just Yalom's flaw and other Ts do not feel that way. If they do, they shouldn't be Ts. I don't know about Yalom, as he is very successful. Do you think you could bring this up with your T? Get it out in the open? It might be difficult but would be healing and helpful for you.