starbuck--sexual abuse is sexual abuse, whether it happened to a male or female. and men and women are both abusers. sometimes people seem to forget these facts. and yes, the abuse can cause or exacerbate mental health problems. if and when you're ready to confront your uncle, it'll be at a time that's right for you. don't push it. you don't need to confront him to know that it happened. it isn't necessary to confront him for you to heal. focus on yourself and your healing. confrontation can come when you're stronger if, at that time, it's important to you.