Thanks for the reply's back. I feel guilty but I also know deep down inside I'm not guilty of anything. This all happened several years ago. I have not talked to my B in law for almost a year now. It's been 6 or so years since he last lived with us. I was just thinking about it and how I mentioned it to the T. It was odd that all she had to say was "Interesting". It was towards the end of the session though.

Vibe you are absolutely correct. It's his issue. I have had a close female friend and he hated her. She moved so we lost touch. But he still hates her. He hates his brother. He hates anyone who does not do things his way. No one else can have a different opinion or do things differently.

I have some issues due to previous sexual abuse and neglect. This has more of an impact on my H and I's relationship than I realized. I have been contributed my fair share of difficulties to our relationship. Before I walk away from this man I want to know I did everything in my power to make it work and to make myself availialbe to work with. Right now I'm not to open to my H. The T says I can't overcome past abuse trauma's while still being abused. So she is working w/ my H to help him see the affects of what he is doing and To see how he triggers me. But also to see in himself why he does the things he does. I have a feeling we are going to be seeing alot of the T in the coming months or years at this rate.