wow. sounds like you have had alot of changes -- marraige, relocation, job change... these are all of the top stressors in a person's life!!.

Its may be necessary to have someone help you with these transitions. I'd encourage you to find some support (therapy, church leaders, etc)... possibly someone who you can see face-to-face. Also perhaps you can start to find your own roots and develop some hobbies until you get to work by getting involved in a group or organization. That will help you meet people.

I saw an Oprah that talked about the depression many women go through after they get married, so I don't think that is uncommon, and that can be compounded by the move and underlying past issues. I hope you reach out and get the help you need.