To be completely honest with you, I always felt Yalom was a little on the anti social (psychopathic antisocial) side. Most famous people are. They step on anyone to get their ideas heard.

I had an attractive, young, straight, male T and I am overweight and he never once judged me for it. We became very close, and I even discussed my body image issues with him successfully.

Don't assume what Yalom did is even close to what your T is doing.