Simon where were you when I was a teen?? I don't think your expectations are too much. Only thing is, you're gonna have to have lots of patience waiting for that girl. They are out there, but extremely hard to find.

From the time I was 14, I wanted that special someone and oh, how I wanted a baby! I wan't doing anything, mind you, to find him! All I ever wanted to be was a good wife and mommy. Both my choices were bad ones because I was in too much of a hurry. So be patient. You're doing the right thing by not going out and looking for your special girl. When the time is right, she'll come to you.

You might want to rethink "staying in", though. I can't think of too many girls/women that I know of that are content staying in ALL the time!

Good luck to ya!