Amen to that! My T is a sweet and very fit lady who constantly tells me how much she cares for me, despite my weight (I'm around 40lbs overweight). Of course I don't believe her, but that's my issue, not hers. I do not believe she is secretly repulsed by me. Like you, this makes me appreciate her all the more.

I've also lost all respect for him. Poor lady - it makes me want to cry.