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Originally Posted by dizgirl2011
...as a larger overweight female I know exactly were you are coming from with this. My T is female and yet I wonder if she is replused by my appearance and it is very hard to talk about food/weight issues with someone who (in my case) is very slim and attractive because I feel like I am being judged and she doesn't understand. I also tell myself she would like me more if I was thin.
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I feel
exactly the same way. I even told my T how I felt she could never really understand. She was obviously hurt, but glad I was being honest. I tried so hard to apologize, but she wouldn't have it. All she cared about was my honestly.
Despite all this, I still hear the little voice in the back of my head telling me she'd like me so much better if I was thin. It's impossible to believe otherwise.
EDIT: I found Irvin Yalom's Facebook fan page and sent it a scathing message. Psh, that'll sure do a lot (rolls eyes). It's probably not even him.
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