(((hugs))) Its like every song reminds you of him, every tv programme, everything you do...its sooo hard But I have found a way of coping better because I tended to romantisize the relationship and make it out to be better in my memories so thanks to T when I do this I have to think of something really bad that she said to me (there was a lot) and it works. Oh and as for her not being in my bed, thats great because I can finally get a full nights sleep without her snoring There is always a positive to everything.
I have my final session with my T next week, but I already started with a new T and she is great, she isn't afraid to speak her mind. My old T would just listen and not say anything bad about my ex but my new T gives out like mad about her, she said is very dangerous and will never change unless she gets help where as old T said that maybe I needed to change and not let people walk all over me, and in fairness that is true and I have started that so between the two of them I will be ready for my next relationship in no time
KTbelle you are never lonely when you have the internet and I will always be here if you are feeling sad or low or wanting to make contact with him and are trying not to just PM me and we dish our exes or just be there for each other