...I know I have to back this up! I have been reading alot on here lately about self image and I know it affects some of us already affected people

.I have hair on my head that grows past an inch it looks like pubes so I shave my head
.a beard to hide my funny looking chin
.nostrils on my nose that could inhale a potato
.one deformed ear I keep forgetting which one
.a belly that does not match the rest of me
.large muscles that work and stick out but still don't quite look right to me!
.and yeah the more I look at my tummy the more I see it's wrapping itself around me and becoming a side and back tummy....hehe
....and legs...well yeah I don't know what animal they were removed from and attached to me

I have to be grateful that this THING that transports my heart and soul around is my dearest friend, and don't forget this is just HOW I see myself! I'm only listing the things I "consider" to be 'unattractive'...and according to WHAT? and according to WHO?....what am I comparing myself to?...whats on the TV...in the stupid magazines ...the immaculate people?....NOT good enough reasons none of them!

it's all heart...if I want to make changes to it then yeah I guess I can if I so insist and thats a personal thing...BUT, will I ever be really happy with it if I continue to compare it with something else?

yes I am an idealist I guess thats obvious....but I spose a realist to