Hi ((((Shipping)))) I am so happy for you that you had such a good experience and takeaway from your T. The thing that struck me again is your Ts out of left field response.

Also, examples cited by you regarding your Ts otherwise devastating response in the absolute negative to whatever it was that you really said.

While I do so agree that it can be highly beneficial and quite life changing for our Ts to foster honesty and continued trust in the environment, I do think there are boundaries that must be set in order to discourage countertransference.

I do believe while yes it is our Ts responsibility to validate and encourage us, I also believe that how our T is feeling is not truly as important as how we are feeling and how we got to that feeling.

Again I am not privy to the entire convo w/your T so I am not sure how "I am not going to have sex with you" came up.

Wishing you the best in good health
Cheers
Rose