I guess it depends what that "stupid judgement" was that your friend made?

could be a whole range of responses that are justified or not

lets say it was justified.....and then you have a highly developed protective side to you.

lets say it was something else and then it's something else yep

I've witnessed many such things and I'm glad it worked out ok for everybody

that mirror effect is expected but I'm wondering if you look real close to your eyes...you might find some trust in there...