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Old Jul 17, 2012, 09:38 AM
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it asked how i felt the mother was and OMG it was awful how i felt.like it was so so wrong,don't understand why.
You don't like to have negative feelings toward the mother?

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the mother didn't have the skills to mentor but why the abuse why the hitting and names and humiliation.
This is a nice way of talking about what your mom did, that she just didn't have the skills. (I think that she was a mean bully, especially to be able to do that to your own child).

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i fear she couldn't help me with this and would just say then don;t talk about it move on.anyway i will probably keep it to myself again.
You have experience with people wanting you to just move on and "get over it"?

I think that this is an excellent opportunity for you to work on this issue. I always looked forward to getting triggered because it brought to the surface what I needed to work on so that I could improve.
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