You aren't the problem here.....it's the lousy guy that you married....you aren't the damaged goods....he's broken beyond repair...not you. It's not you that he left because he left because he's an irresponsible, immature brat & even if he were to find someone else....I would feel sorry for them....not you.....you can start a new better life now & not be stuck with that looser.

He really didn't reject you.....you were just in the place where he didn't want to be anymore.....anyone who would have been in your place at that time & with his fear of having to become responsible because of a new baby coming into his life....he would have left....it's not you...it's the position you were in.

Your daughter has the best one of the marriage to have for her parent....you are the responsible one......her daddy didn't want the responsibility of your daughter.....many young kid parents get afraid at that point & want to run....it's the good ones that were really committed to the marriage that stay....it's the loosers that run like the guy you happened to choose to marry.

Learn from this.....there are many young girls who have been in a similar position as you are who ended up with looser husbands who ran before the baby is born because of their fear & they aren't willing to admit it.......learn to make sure that you find truly committed, caring guy the next time & don't just take anyone interested because you feel you are damaged goods......you can find a wonderful husband & father for your daughter.

If I were you.....I would be thankful to get that looser out of your life & be able to see his true colors before you invest years into the marriage & end up leaving him anyway because of his irresponsible behavior....which I am sure has shown up in other areas of your relationship.

Stop putting yourself down....his leaving has nothing to do with you....but in truth...I am sure it's his inability to assume the responsibility of having a baby in his life & he is just too immature....better not to have a person like that around your baby because you don't know how they will act when they feel stressed out....it's people like that where abuse can come from if they can't tolerate being around babies.