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Originally Posted by farmergirl
Vent away. Sounds like something happened to really shake him up and he was taking care of himself, which is good modeling, and taking care of you, knowing he wasn't in the right shape or mind to be there in the way he knows he needs to be there for you.
If he had gone ahead with the session and fumbled through it not really being present and fully attentive to you, would that have been better?
Sorry it happened. Go right ahead and vent away. Just remember he was doing what in his best judgement was best for himself AND for you at the moment. That IS being there for you, just not in the way you would prefer.
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I know somewhere in my rational thoughts I agree with you Chris.. lol. I can see all of those things as being good and the right thing to do for himself. I think what I get hung up on is the fact that he cancelled my appointment, but kept the rest of his. I know probably that it was just where my appointment fell in the craziness of what happened today, but I guess I am taking that personally. Oh well, I will get over it and it will be all good.
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