This website has helped me a lot:
http://flylady.com
I think you are ahead of the game by keeping your house clean, but should you have another depressive episode or anything else overwhelming, this is a good place to start or keep things maintained. Sometimes I think the website owners know about people like you and me.
I hope this helps you!
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NuckingFutz,
National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-4-A-CHILD
National Dom Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE