(((AbandonmentIssues)))

You are NOT the problem at all. Your ex-hub is the problem. He became scared as your pregnancy went on, and that's when he realized that he didn't want to be an adult! He just wanted to be like his other young buddies without any major responsibilities.

I really don't think that he's grasped the concept of what parenthood means. Whether he is or isn't a part of your daily life, he still has financial responsibility. By his words, of telling you to go on & find another man, it seems as though he just doesn't want to deal with parenting responsibilities at all! Tough patoozies, is what I say!!

I can understand your fear of not being loved by your baby girl, but you will be her all. My girls and I were inseparable for the first couple of years of their lives. Even when I was with their daddy, all that they wanted was mommy. Enjoy that special closeness that you will have with your daughter. Words just don't do the feeling justice.

You're hormonal, lots of fears become intense during this time of pregnancy. It's pretty darn stressful during typical pregnancies ~ adding this stress and heartache now is absolutely cruel of your ex. He's a POS and he will someday realize that! Don't ever doubt that. You will make it through & be a stronger woman, and a heck of a mommy!!