YES you are right..... communication is what it is all about with in a relationship..... when you do find some one take it slow and after say 6 months to 1 year you can open up a little bit more with her.
BTW - I like to stay in and have a warm cozy night at home.... so keep faith, for there are other females out there like home more than the night life.

Find YOU first..... then she can be a blessing and not the package..... YOU are the Package - share it with her.

LoVe,
Rhapsody - (((( hugs ))))