I have had one.. and it is a very unique thing to try and describe...

I had one, when I was having a emergency C-section of my frist child. When they were taking my child out, I saw over in the corner of the room my grandfather and his wife and my uncle saying you hve to stay, but all I wanted to do was walk toward the light, the anstaligolgist said no, you have to stay here it is not your time to go.. It was not her face I saw that day, and I will never forget taht day, it is so vivid in my mind..
I had my chance to go "home" and someone told me I had to stay because my time here was not done..

Sorry if this did not help, but i look at what happend to me as a second chance to make a better life for me and what ever God puts before me to do in life, and I have tried my hardest to live up to what is good and true in my life.

books to read..
you might try
http://www.beliefnet.com

eiter of these sites maybe able to give you a list of books on near death experinces and hlep you to understand what you went through and also help you understand waht happend..
The second one is a religous website but it is to me one of the good ones on the web..
I am a member of the site and I enjoy it all the time ok..

I hope that helps a little..


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Darkness all around
Darkness is my freind
I will let it overtake me this time
Cause I no longer belong....