you have no idea how good it was for me to read your reply, i had a really strange thing happen today, my door bell rang and i opened my door and my ex barged in and said that he needed his stereo and cds and he was so messed up on i think speed or maybe coke? his eyes were huge and it was just really scary, he got his stuff and just barged back out. the really scary thing is that he still has the key to my apartment! i put a bunch of stuff against the door tonight, i dont think he'll be able to get in, maybe he wont even try but better safe then sorry. my dad is coming over to install a new lock tomarro but until then i'm freaked out. my ex is just letting himself fall apart, its sad, but i shouldnt be suprised because i was the one who always held him together.
it sounds like you have the best of both worlds with both of your therapists, im so happy that your doing so good, it sounds like you have a really positive outlook on things, i tottaly agree with you about seeing the positive things about the break up, i started making a list a month ago when we first broke up about things i wont have to deal with or worry about now that im not with him, after the first week i had 3 pages! but still like you said pretty much everything reminds me of him. but i dont regret my decision to end things, i had many valid reasons.
i sleep better now because my ex snored too!lol
its really nice to actually hear from a friend when im on the internet, your a sweet heart!