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Originally Posted by farmergirl
Sounds like you were BOTH behaving badly that night. What was that all about? I definitely don't put any more blame on him than I do on you. What were you thinking? Why the out of control behavior? You BOTH screwed up and screwed around here. This is not normal marriage behavior, shows an entire lack of respect for your relationship together (both of you).
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Farmergirl You act like you have never done something bad after a night of drinking. You are acting like you have the right to judge only God has the right to judge this women. In today's world people get drunk and experiment. It is clear that she and her husband both are feeling bad about the whole thing no need to make her feel any worse. My advice to her is though if you know you do things out of character for you when you drink a lot. Try to set a limit for yourself and him. I have a two drink limit and I always stick to it. I can not say I have never experiment hell I am bisexual so I have done more than experiment. Also sitting down and talking to him about what is ok and not ok even when drinking will help. I am not judging you one bit just giving my advice.