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Originally Posted by brokenandalone1234
Farmergirl You act like you have never done something bad after a night of drinking. You are acting like you have the right to judge only God has the right to judge this women. In today's world people get drunk and experiment. It is clear that she and her husband both are feeling bad about the whole thing no need to make her feel any worse. My advice to her is though if you know you do things out of character for you when you drink a lot. Try to set a limit for yourself and him. I have a two drink limit and I always stick to it. I can not say I have never experiment hell I am bisexual so I have done more than experiment. Also sitting down and talking to him about what is ok and not ok even when drinking will help. I am not judging you one bit just giving my advice.
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You are right. I have never done anything bad after a night of drinking. My husband and I would never behave that way toward each other as that would not be respectful of our commitment to each other. Yes, this is a couple that needs to get some things sorted out. I have no idea what those things might be to lead them to such disrespect for each other, whether under the influence or not, but clearly they need to sit down and talk this through, perhaps under the guidance of a therapist who can help them discover why they would turn to other people outside their marriage rather than to each other.