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Jul 18, 2012, 05:57 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I was with the wrong man for 26 years -- he was emotionally bankrupt, although he was emotionally and metally abusive, but I stayed for the sake of the kids, and because I was afraid of being alone and afraid of HIM.
I finally divorced him - fear and all. And WOW, what a wonderful feeling! All my fears were gone, even tho the idiot stalked me, I didn't care.
Kick this guy to the curb == he's not contributing anything, neither financially or emotionally! He's not giving you ANYTHING. So what good is he? He's DRAINING you. Find someone who will give BACK -- not just take all the time!!! You deserve better than this, dearheart. You're WORTH more than this. Don't give yourself away. Go for it. Hugs, Lee 
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