I don't know how to pursue a relationship with someone. I don't know how to make someone like me. It twists my insides up and gives me a major episode when I hit a wall with a girl that I like..

Although I've been told I'm good-looking, charming and funny; I can't figure out how to "date." One or two-night stands are usually how things end with a girl.. Sometimes the fault is mine, because I was only out for one thing... I get my comeuppance though, because women that I'm interested in don't seem to have the same interest in me.

Or maybe I just don't know how to "win over" a girl. I've been single for the last 3 and a half years, with ZERO serious relationships. (Haven't even regularly dated a woman since 2009) and it makes me really depressed. Will this always be me? I have kind of accepted the fact that I will be without a significant other, but thinking about it sends me into a deep depressive state.

I can't get over this feeling like I want to give up. I want one of my friends to help me, but I don't want them to know I feel like this. I'm ready to leave.