Ha you guys gave me an idea. I could make an itinerary of sorts and just say to my boyfriend " oh hey I saw this and it looked cool, let's check it out today" make it seem spontaneous like. That's a little devious on my end but he'll feel all adventurous like and I'll feel more secure.
Thanks for the welcome Buggs! I am pretty excited to see some things I've only seen in pictures or on tv. San Fancisco reminds me of "Full House" haha. I really want to take it all in. And shop, I've put extra money aside to do a little shopping.