There is a lot of pressure caused by society that can lead to things like this. If a man is a virgin at an old age, he is seen by others as defective. You may say its not true, but I know from personal experience that others look down on older male virgins. Females on the other hand, who choose to hold off on having sex, for spiritual or other reasons. Are actually seen as better than those who lost their virginity at a younger age. It is a very double standard, confusing time we live in.

All-in-all, I believe sex is important in a relationship. With the right person, I don't think there should be any pressure to have sex, it should come naturally. Although it should be with someone you deeply love.

This is just my personal opinion, people are free to enjoy free-love relationships and everything as they please. It's a matter of personal feeling and morals. Follow your compass and you will be happy.