my mother would suggest a different body part, and a different packing material. This is a real breakthru for me, that I heard and identified the source of this crack (so to speak) as HER voice, the evil maternal introject, and not as my own. I'm achieving separation! It may seem like a small step, but I think my T would call it monumental. so freefall, you did a good thing. and according to a new book i'm reading, The TOOLS, when you do a good thing, it doesn't affect just the immediate person, but it puts goodness out into the world to be multiplied (i'm not exactly sure how they word it) and look that's what happened here, you helped me too, in a way you never could have foreseen. kinda magical.