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Old Jul 19, 2012, 05:33 AM
sittingatwatersedge sittingatwatersedge is offline
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Originally Posted by SoupDragon View Post
So what's more important, T's experience of working through all issues previously with someone, or the closeness in relationship[...]?
Maybe it depends on what needs to be worked on.
At one time I would have answered, "relationship" - in fact I did, and spent 4 yrs with someone who was not trained in treatment of trauma.

that ended up going nowhere, and now after 6 months with someone who does specialize in trauma, the difference is like night & day.

you will know whether or not it's working.